Fanning the flames

Ifrit Love

What IS love, and why is it so hard for some to find it?

I recently … well more accurately – often … put some thought into this matter, and suddenly, in that crazy, eye-opening way that so often floors me:

UNDERSTOOD

Love can only be defined by individuals. It is not possible to put a dictionary definition on it; a distinct THIS IS LOVE, because it only works correctly if we each figure it out for ourselves. If we constantly pursue someone ELSE’s definition of love, then it will never quite match us. We will always be wanting. So for all out there seeking love … if you are having a tough time finding it, maybe you need to understand what you are actually looking for first. For only YOU can truly understand what YOU mean by love.

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